In general, women go for the cuteness factor and for the money factor. If they get a good package of cuteness and money, then they consider themselves as superlucky. Relationships have become superficial. When it comes to money factor, job matters. Earlier, women would close their eyes and marry a softeware engineer. You are the lucky match if you have a blooming career in software. Like flies on excreta, women queue in for such guys. Its not different in the case of guys: they need a beautiful wife who knows to cook and who gets a fair (and heavy share) from the ancestral property, eventhough she is not working. This makes them settled in life becos if the girl comes with 10 kgs of Gold , a car and a house, then what matters - "Dowry is not dowry in kerala - its the right of a woman" (this deep thought might have been coined by some butcher who wanted heavy dowry for his good-for-nothing son). However, there are exceptions: people look for companionship, soul mates, and the clever ones just imagine a life with the person after 10 years - trust me! that ends your quest for the right one!
I wonder how people can find love amidst all this. Many are the cases where people fall for looks and end up with the biggest disasters in their lives. Life is not superficial when yu start living it. Living together requires lot of adjustment and compromises else why to get married?? staying single is better.
"I am so goody goody": this is the big mistake everyone does - fake as goody goody when yu are not that goody goody and this leads to problems. Yu can fake before the whole world but not with the one yu have chosen to live with your entire life. All the goody goody masks are pulled down in a matter of time and what lies beneath is exposed (be it dirt or pearls!). Inner beauty!! thats the word. When you are old and you are still glowing - its nothing but your inner beauty! (read somewhere, donnow where :-s)
No one is perfect - thats the truth and many divorces take place because yu expect your partner to be perfect all the time. The glow of skin fades with time, what remains in a relationship then is the fact that how much yu need each other and how much yu love each other - and lastly and more importantly, how much you have invested in your relationship.
Got a forward today: Why women rule the world? "What is mine is mine and what is yours is also mine"
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I will be wanting wife with dowry of nonetheless than 3 bulls and/ors cows and 3 chickens or 2 cox. And either if she can cook or is pretty one but not both are being requested by myself. both will be very very nice.
3 chickens?
and what abt the cow part :-o
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