Sound waves - being assertive!

Being assertive without being aggressive at workplace???

what's being assertive?

"to state positively"

I highlight your positive traits and appreciate you "loudly."

"WOW Kilrone - what a superb idea? U are very innovative. KEEP it up!! "

Note: Ur decibels should not be as low as that of the cracking of a dry leaf , but fairly high enough that not only you but your team recognises his/her good work.

A recent survey showed that "APPRECIATION" is a stronger motivator than money!!! In fact this is true be'cos this is the sole reason why people stick to some companies even if the pay is less! - However, I feel that they get overmotivated by appreciation

"What the blah blah blah blah BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH BLAH ......

u take ur coworker or ur team member on a trip to hell, heaven, and the jungles of amazon and blast him with a comet and hit him with a meteor - at last you have achieved nothing but an "ARMAGEDDON"

I should "scold u in silence" - in fact, I have to keep my decibels too low that only the person whom I am being assertive with should be able to record the soundwaves when I "scold" him?

what's being aggressive?

"tending toward or exhibiting aggression"

I highlight your negative traits and demoralise you and SCOLD U INSANELY!!!

NOTE: SUPERSONIC decibels not allowed!!!

To all those so-called aggressive leaders?

If you are a leader, why you have to be aggressive when you know that the basic craving for a human mind is love and affection.

SO stop being aggressive and be assertive!!! One of the strongest lessons of life!